Narc Behaviours

One of the biggest weapons of the narcissist is their words. I’m sure you’ve probably experienced many of these examples of narcissist text messages, which showcase just how over the top, fake, self-centred, demanding and unrealistic they really are. If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, it’s easy to see how they will continue […]

Narcissists are notorious for completely ruining special occasions, point blank. I cannot tell you the number of birthdays and events my narcissist ex ruined, to the point where I used to dread the days. He “forgot” my very first Mother’s Day, even though our baby was just eight weeks old – the wounds were literally

Toxic and abusive relationships are incredibly convoluted situations, with narcissist trauma bonding being a crucial element in keeping people imprisoned. When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, your brain doesn’t even compute that the person who’s supposed to love you is in fact abusing you. Narcissists are highly skilled manipulators and are very methodical

If you’re dealing with a narc, there is one guarantee that you can be certain of – the narcissist will discard you. It’s utterly devastating to think that the person who you thought loved you or at least cared for you, could be so callous. You may have shared a life with them and even

The stages of narcissistic abuse can happen in any type of relationship with a narc, whether it be with a parent or caregiver, a coworker or boss, a friend, a sibling or a romantic partner. Quite often we aren’t aware that we’re even dealing with a narcissist, because the hot-cold, on-off, in-out dynamics leave us

There are a number of narcissist blame shifting examples used by the narc to avoid taking any kind of responsibility for their shitty behaviour. Essentially, blame shifting is where a person deflects any blame that is being directed at them, straight back onto the person who is trying to voice their concerns. Therefore, the original

Hoovering is a common tactic that narcissists will use when you have escaped (or are escaping) their toxic web and they want to pull you back into their world. Much like a Hoover will vacuum up everything in its path, a narcissist will try to do the same. The aim of hoovering is to coerce

If you find yourself dealing with a narcissistic person and are researching the topic to find out more, you will no doubt come across the phrase ‘Narcissistic Supply.’ So, what is narcissistic supply? Narcissistic supply is the energy that a narcissist garners from the world around them (other people) to feed their empty energetic tank.

Have you had the unfortunate experience of having to care for a sick narcissist? My condolences, because I know how taxing it can be! So, let’s talk about the issues around how narcissists act when narcissists get sick. There are quite a few dynamics that can be at play, depending on the type of narcissist

A common complaint among difficult personality relationships is how a narcissist treats you when you’re sick. Let’s be honest, when you’re in a tight relationship with someone, whether it be an intimate partner, parent or child, you kind of assume it’s “in sickness and in health,” right? Nope, not when it comes to a narcissist.